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Posted: Wed 6th Aug 2008, 7:19 am Welshgem81 wrote:
To all those people saying they'd never have one, what if you found out that the unborn baby was seriously deformed or had downs etc? would you still feel the same?
I still wouldn't have one.
The only way I would even consider it was if in early days I was told the pregnancy could be a risk to my life or the baby has a greater chance of dying than living. Or if the baby was already dead obviously.
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Posted: Wed 6th Aug 2008, 9:47 am Holly Says... wrote:
I'm not totally against it, like for medical reasons I understand but having one from choice I don't understand.
If you get pregnant, and you didn't intend to, that's your fault.
If you don't want the baby, have it put up for adoption, there are so many people who can't have children, a few I know and I feel really bad for them when I hear how they feel when they hear about someone having an abortion.
So lets turn the great gift of having a child into the world, into a punishment. Thats the old chestnut that has never made sense in a abortion arguement.
''All pretence has been abandoned, as both teams take to the field naked covered in lubricated to sound of pounding techno.''
Frankie Boyle, Mock the Mock. 2007.
Posted: Wed 6th Aug 2008, 10:33 am Hexvision wrote:
So lets turn the great gift of having a child into the world, into a punishment. Thats the old chestnut that has never made sense in a abortion arguement.
Well, if someone intended on having a one stand for example, didn't use contraception because he/she was too pissed and the girl ended up getting preggo, then who's fault is that?
Not saying it's either a man's or a woman's responsibility to carry contraception, it's both but people need to be more mature about certain things.
Never regret something that once made you smile <3
Posted: Wed 6th Aug 2008, 10:51 am Holly Says... wrote:
Well, if someone intended on having a one stand for example, didn't use contraception because he/she was too pissed and the girl ended up getting preggo, then who's fault is that?
Not saying it's either a man's or a woman's responsibility to carry contraception, it's both but people need to be more mature about certain things.
Fault alone because of a mistake doesn't mean oh she should be forced to have to go though a pregency she doesn't want just to play the blame game that someone wouldn't deny.
''All pretence has been abandoned, as both teams take to the field naked covered in lubricated to sound of pounding techno.''
Frankie Boyle, Mock the Mock. 2007.
Posted: Wed 6th Aug 2008, 11:44 am Yes I have
Yes it was quite painful but only bleed for a few days
Mentally am not over it, I do regret it...But was the best for everyone at the time...I think its worse for me cos I have children already wholive with their dad and always been against abortion for myself personally But I guess it is true that you cant say til you are in that position where you have to consider it....
Posted: Wed 6th Aug 2008, 2:56 pm Holly Says... wrote:
Well, if someone intended on having a one stand for example, didn't use contraception because he/she was too pissed and the girl ended up getting preggo, then who's fault is that?
Not saying it's either a man's or a woman's responsibility to carry contraception, it's both but people need to be more mature about certain things.
what if they used something and it failed?
inkedandpierced
Posted: Wed 6th Aug 2008, 3:10 pm inkedandpierced wrote:
what if they used something and it failed?
Then that's not really their fault in a way no, but I would still say adoption over abortion.
Never regret something that once made you smile <3
Posted: Wed 6th Aug 2008, 3:11 pm Holly Says... wrote:
Then that's not really their fault in a way no, but I would still say adoption over abortion.
again that would be punishment for the woman
inkedandpierced
Posted: Wed 6th Aug 2008, 3:16 pm inkedandpierced wrote:
again that would be punishment for the woman
I really don't see how.
Never regret something that once made you smile <3
Posted: Wed 6th Aug 2008, 3:28 pm inkedandpierced wrote:
again that would be punishment for the woman
and it can mess up a child to find out they were rejected by their biological perents.
I dont agree with late abortions but imo ones under 10 weeks are ok if it isn't the right time/situation.
Posted: Wed 6th Aug 2008, 3:28 pm Holly Says... wrote:
I really don't see how.
because she doesnt want thi kid so why would she want to put herself through 9 months of pregnancy then however many hours of labour
inkedandpierced
Posted: Wed 6th Aug 2008, 4:07 pm inkedandpierced wrote:
because she doesnt want thi kid so why would she want to put herself through 9 months of pregnancy then however many hours of labour
For shits and giggles. Also to say I had my fanny split.
''All pretence has been abandoned, as both teams take to the field naked covered in lubricated to sound of pounding techno.''
Frankie Boyle, Mock the Mock. 2007.
Posted: Wed 6th Aug 2008, 4:08 pm Welshgem81 wrote:
To all those people saying they'd never have one, what if you found out that the unborn baby was seriously deformed or had downs etc? would you still feel the same?
Well they still allowed you to be born, a little unfair on the rest of the downys isn't it?
Posted: Wed 6th Aug 2008, 4:15 pm vampir3uk wrote:
Well they still allowed you to be born, a little unfair on the rest of the downys isn't it?
24? Really? 
Posted: Wed 6th Aug 2008, 4:20 pm I'm sorry, I don't speak pineapple.
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