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xRaindrops wrote:
I have the chance now to start seeing someone, I do like him and he's a really nice guy to talk to etc.. He admitted he's not always been the best person in the past, by this he means trouble with the law, but since starting work and college, he has left the past behind him.
The Ex on the other hand says if I get with someone his life won't be worth living AKA "I will end my life."
.. What would you personally do in this situation?
EDIT: Feel free to move, I didn't know what this thread would come under.
Wow you took long, you must be this forums regular customer, i hardly go on here but seem to know everything about your love life.
Your ex is an idiot and why you're still talking to him when you want to move on your get on with your own life is stupid, let him live in the past as it's your life not his, staying in contact is the stupidest thing you can do, you need to cut all ties then see how you feel about any potential boyfriends.
Now as for the other guy, sure most guys don't admit they still get into trouble with the law and say it's in the past.. The best advice i'd give is start seeing him for a while maybe a month or two, get to know him properly by then you should know enough to see how dodgy he could be. Or how 'bad boyish' he actually is.
Seems to me that you just NEED to have a boyfriend because you're afraid of being alone due to always being in a long term relationship, and the best advice i could possibly give you is to try being single and find happiness through other means without having a boyfriend then when you find someone it will be when you're in the right state of mind and won't be on the rebound.
