femmefatale wrote:

i think its unfair to say that you're arent inlove with someone if you cheat on them.

sometimes if you're in a relationship were there isnt any intimacy, you feel quite lonely and rejected, then someone offers you a bit of affection you'll take it and loose all common sense you know.

i'm not trying to justify cheating, but that was the case for me when i cheated on my ex, but i did love him alot.

the sensible thing to do would not to kiss or sleep with someone straight away, then theres no chance of it happening.

I'm not saying I've slept with guys and then found out about their gf's afterwards... yes that's happened one or twice, with guys I have spoken to for a while... but never actually asked if they were single - because you were clicking so much you just assumed it.

I'm talking about the ones that actually admit to having a gf but still ask you to be their little secret, doing the whole "they don't have to know" routine.

I've always wanted to know the answer to this question. My friend wanted to cheat on his girlfriend with me a few months back.

I considered it - I don't even know why, but I told him straight!

Some men just aren't happy in their relationships. This one hadn't had sex for ages.

I don't understand why they want both, though.

My ex fuck buddy came on MSN the other week and asked me to go round to his, I know he has a gf cos she is my cousin.

I told him to get lost I'm not sleeping with someone who has a gf...3 days later he finishes with her and phones me up... I still told him to get lost

I don't get why men do this

It's pathetic, if you want to shag other people, don't get into a relationship simple as.

ive been cheated on in the past with ex's.
but the post above to me seems to make out that it was my fault. LOL

Aintnosunshine wrote:

Nah, you get cheated on, that's tough titty.

But you get played...that's different

Hes got a point there

Tut

Simple question is, "Why would you cheat?".

Not "Oh look at all these nasty men I am going to post on a website to see if any decent ones will appear."

Don't think so.

Never cheated never will.

Its the 90% of guys that are cocks do.