Metalliwhore wrote:

Yes I know women do it too... but I was asking from my side of the story.

As for taking things slowly Ginge, I have been!

But imagine you are in the clubs, and some hot one comes onto you, you assume they are single, right? You shouldn't have to ask if they are single or not, because if they were taken they shouldnt be coming onto you in the first place.

Why do you assume that? People that go to clubs aren't always single. You should ask them before carrying on like say after a kiss.

i think theres situations where cheating is inevitable.

your with a girl for a period, 1-2 years e.g. you fall out of love with her.

you do the rite thing and end it, even if its going to break her heart, but she turns up at your house, rings you every day crying, txt after txt. she begs you to get back with her. so you do out of pressure and guilt. the relatinoship is a nightmare, there is no fun, shes worried the whole time, your resenting.

you go out, meet someone exciting, free spirited, light hearted. you feel lust, excitement, suspense and adrenaline.

ITS GONA HAPPEN !

im not saying its justified.. but alcohol in the mix too. its inevitable!

and its inevitable for girls too. quit Male Bashing. we all want the best we can get!

i love how everyone uses alcohol as a blame hound...

as my uncle used to say "Alcohol loosens the tongue"... (the truth comes out when you're drunk). If a bloke cheats on his missus when he's drunk, he wanted to anyways, not just because he was drunk. If a girl cheats on her fella or does a bit of ridin about, it's because she's a dirt and loves the cock. End of story.

Dee wrote:

lol you can just say "no" :\

I agree, I think the human race has forgotten the word restraint. LoL

sex is on fire wrote:

id rather make myself happy.

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but she turns up at your house, rings you every day crying, txt after txt. she begs you to get back with her. so you do out of pressure and guilt. the relatinoship is a nightmare, there is no fun, shes worried the whole time, your resenting.

How is that making yourself happy ? Instead of goin thru that and then cheating its much easier to say no.

Dee wrote:

i love how everyone uses alcohol as a blame hound...

Yeah me too thats the lamest excuse up there with the whole "like you as a friend" and "I cant go on a date Im washing my hair" lol

I hate the whole "I was drunk" line

and you can just say No

Dee wrote:

i love how everyone uses alcohol as a blame hound...

as my uncle used to say "Alcohol loosens the tongue"... (the truth comes out when you're drunk). If a bloke cheats on his missus when he's drunk, he wanted to anyways, not just because he was drunk. If a girl cheats on her fella or does a bit of ridin about, it's because she's a dirt and loves the cock. End of story.

If  a guy cheated on me, i'd slap him... if he used alchol as the blame he'd get a punch and a kick in the balls.

I have been in some right messes through drink/drugs and I have NEVER thought about wanting to cheat. So no mater how plastered you are, it's no excuse to cheat