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  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 22nd Sep 2008, 1:57 pm

    I've noticed recentlythat alot of 13/14 year olds are starting to act like their 20

    for eg. the other weekend i came home to my flat to find 3 young girls no more then 14 sat on my steps drinking whisky which they had obviously nabbed from home... i asked them to get off my property and one of them gave me attitude lol! something like "if you f*****g ask me nicely love" another example was last night we nipped over road to get some snacks and a bunch of what, 13 year old lads were in there whistling and asking us what position we liked i feel intimidated if i walk past a group of chavs who are only 14/15 now because i know their alot more outspoken these days

    may just be me but when i was that age i wouldnt dare speak to someone several years older then me like that! do you think kids are becoming more outspoken and if so do you blame society or what?

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    lushMUCH

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 22nd Sep 2008, 1:59 pm
    I hate kids like that. They're all like that around here. I'd love to hit them a slap


    Ich Will

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 22nd Sep 2008, 2:01 pm

    Just how the world's changing.Society and parents are down to a good number of it imo.

    As you say a few years ago people wouldn't dare say things like that or act it as they'd get a crack round head for it.

    The PC police are down to it aswell stating what you can and can't do to your child to discipline them or that teachers etc cant use discipline on pupils when there little bastards in the class room.

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    Giggz
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  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 22nd Sep 2008, 2:05 pm

    ki

    ds are not kids for long enough anymore.
    i see my 14 year old cousin on bebo with her bottle of wkd and think wtf? but then i was lke that at her age.
    some of them even look older than me and it's slightly worrying.

    last weekend when we were in southend, these 3 little lads couldn't have been any older than 11 started wolf whistling at us and explictally telling us what they wanted to do to us. in the end we had to go into ann summers and hide from them, as they stated following us back.



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    winny

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 22nd Sep 2008, 2:06 pm
    I know what you mean! It is quite intimidating when you are by yourself i tend to hit back with, 'try again when your outta nappies love' or a nice, 'ergh' or 'yuck' tends to lower thier self esteem

    naughtymiss

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 22nd Sep 2008, 2:08 pm

    LMAOOOOOOOOOOO

    There was this group of pricks who always hang outside the newsagents in town. MY old man goes every afternoon to get the paper (He is 62 come on lol) And he continously used to get grief of this lad, who he found out was 17. Anyway, my old man is a retired copper so he doesn't take shit off anyone but used to just let it go.

    About 3 weeks ago, this little twat got a bit personal and well, my old man sparked the cunt out. Broken nose, black eye, the works. Needless to say my dad was arrested as the shop had CCTV outside. He could of got into a lot of trouble. However, for some reason a few days after this incident the lad went to the station and dropped all charges. I still don't know why to this day, but it's got to have something to do with some coppers maybe warning this lad or someone putting the shits up him about pressing charges against a former copper.

    Anyway, the brats don't hang around the shop anymore and when my old man goes in for his paper and his packet of mints the shop don't charge him anymore

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 22nd Sep 2008, 2:12 pm

    lushMUCH wrote:

    I've noticed recentlythat alot of 13/14 year olds are starting to act like their 20

    for eg. the other weekend i came home to my flat to find 3 young girls no more then 14 sat on my steps drinking whisky which they had obviously nabbed from home... i asked them to get off my property and one of them gave me attitude lol! something like "if you f*****g ask me nicely love" another example was last night we nipped over road to get some snacks and a bunch of what, 13 year old lads were in there whistling and asking us what position we liked i feel intimidated if i walk past a group of chavs who are only 14/15 now because i know their alot more outspoken these days

    may just be me but when i was that age i wouldnt dare speak to someone several years older then me like that! do you think kids are becoming more outspoken and if so do you blame society or what?

    what happened?

    in fairness when i was younger i was prob a bit of a pain in arse too but nothing as bad as that really. I think a lot of its front, kids trying to act hard in front of their mates, reputation sort of thing. I think partly its too do with area, rougher the area the more of a front kids need to put on and a lot to do with parenting - not just the kids parents but their friends parents - as kids will act that way to fit in with mates.

    I do als feel very intimidated walking past groups of teens etc now because they will start with the abuse and there's not really a lot you can do about it - them being kids as well would just make you look like the bad one!

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    P1nkRabb1t

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 22nd Sep 2008, 2:14 pm

    I've never got any shit from little kids.

    But still if i walk past a group of say 15/16 year olds, I will be a little scared, with all the knife crime and what have you.

    But i just tend to stare at them all, show em that your aren't scared.


    Pendulum

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 22nd Sep 2008, 2:15 pm

    Popcorn Fart wrote:

    LMAOOOOOOOOOOO

    There was this group of pricks who always hang outside the newsagents in town. MY old man goes every afternoon to get the paper (He is 62 come on lol) And he continously used to get grief of this lad, who he found out was 17. Anyway, my old man is a retired copper so he doesn't take shit off anyone but used to just let it go.

    About 3 weeks ago, this little twat got a bit personal and well, my old man sparked the cunt out. Broken nose, black eye, the works. Needless to say my dad was arrested as the shop had CCTV outside. He could of got into a lot of trouble. However, for some reason a few days after this incident the lad went to the station and dropped all charges. I still don't know why to this day, but it's got to have something to do with some coppers maybe warning this lad or someone putting the shits up him about pressing charges against a former copper.

    Anyway, the brats don't hang around the shop anymore and when my old man goes in for his paper and his packet of mints the shop don't charge him anymore

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    winny

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 22nd Sep 2008, 2:22 pm

    lushMUCH wrote:

    I've noticed recentlythat alot of 13/14 year olds are starting to act like their 20

    for eg. the other weekend i came home to my flat to find 3 young girls no more then 14 sat on my steps drinking whisky which they had obviously nabbed from home... i asked them to get off my property and one of them gave me attitude lol! something like "if you f*****g ask me nicely love" another example was last night we nipped over road to get some snacks and a bunch of what, 13 year old lads were in there whistling and asking us what position we liked i feel intimidated if i walk past a group of chavs who are only 14/15 now because i know their alot more outspoken these days

    may just be me but when i was that age i wouldnt dare speak to someone several years older then me like that! do you think kids are becoming more outspoken and if so do you blame society or what?

    I completely agree. I haven't got no confidence at all walking past 13/15 year olds cos of how they are to people older than them.


    Revelry

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 22nd Sep 2008, 2:23 pm
    I think kids have been like this for a while now.Its how they get brought up.



    *Miss_Kellie*

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 22nd Sep 2008, 2:23 pm

    P1nkRabb1t wrote:

    what happened?

    in fairness when i was younger i was prob a bit of a pain in arse too but nothing as bad as that really. I think a lot of its front, kids trying to act hard in front of their mates, reputation sort of thing. I think partly its too do with area, rougher the area the more of a front kids need to put on and a lot to do with parenting - not just the kids parents but their friends parents - as kids will act that way to fit in with mates.

    I do als feel very intimidated walking past groups of teens etc now because they will start with the abuse and there's not really a lot you can do about it - them being kids as well would just make you look like the bad one!

    yea i was aswell when i was lil but id never mouth off to someone 6 years older then me i wouldnt have dared lol!

    well i just told her i didnt need to be polite she was 14 and on my property and to p***s off back home! i was so mad that they had the cheek to even sit on my doorstop then give me cheek!

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    lushMUCH

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 22nd Sep 2008, 2:26 pm

    P1nkRabb1t wrote:

    what happened?

    in fairness when i was younger i was prob a bit of a pain in arse too but nothing as bad as that really. I think a lot of its front, kids trying to act hard in front of their mates, reputation sort of thing. I think partly its too do with area, rougher the area the more of a front kids need to put on and a lot to do with parenting - not just the kids parents but their friends parents - as kids will act that way to fit in with mates.

    I do als feel very intimidated walking past groups of teens etc now because they will start with the abuse and there's not really a lot you can do about it - them being kids as well would just make you look like the bad one!

    Yea thats exactly the problem, you cant really do anything these days, if you even get caught hitting interviening (sp) with a minor you get all sorts of allagations thrown at you, especially for men. So all you can do is keep your distance and ignore it, but its alot harder when there stooped on your doorstep lol

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    lushMUCH

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 22nd Sep 2008, 2:41 pm

    Yea they need a good right hander! Usually they hang around on their bikes outside Tescos.

    They may be minors and you can't get away with anything physical on them...nothing to say you can't give their bikes a good shoeing tho!


    itsmeono

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 22nd Sep 2008, 2:51 pm
    Surely it would be alot easier for kids to hang around in groups helping people.

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