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  • Report | Quote Posted: Fri 3rd Oct 2008, 1:39 pm

    KATiiExLOUiiSE wrote:

    my arsehole boyfriend cheats on me all the time.

    and he lies about everything.

    we live together and he still does it.

    but i love him an stay with him.

    even tho i cheat on him to get back at him

    we really should never have got together in the first place!

    cuz it was a rebound thing for him anyway.

    i wouldnt call that a relationship tbh, why not just split up if you both cheat? no doubt eventually trust will become an issue and it wont last long

    And no, wouldnt dream of cheating on anyone, i havent been cheated on so i dont know what it feels like, but i certainly wouldnt like it, and if it did happen it would mean the end

    Last edited by BeckyLegs, Fri 3rd Oct 2008, 1:40 pm.


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  • Report | Quote Posted: Fri 3rd Oct 2008, 2:46 pm

    Sparklytiger wrote:

    When your in a long term relationship hypothetically what do you do if you get tempted to cheat?

    I mean obviously you love your partner and wouldnt want to hurt them but sometimes things get a little stale and you need some excitement!

    Do what i can to add some spice into our sexlife i guess.

    Things can & do go stale with most relationships.


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  • Report | Quote Posted: Fri 3rd Oct 2008, 3:02 pm
    I don't know what fairy tale land you lot live in, but you can still love someone and want other people. Also, all relationships experience problems, how much you want each other can vary. It's natural to fancy other people, it doesn't mean you don't love your partner. It's only a problem if you actually act on it, because then the other person might get hurt. All you can do is try to recreate the spark, and make each other feel wanted and attractive.

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Fri 3rd Oct 2008, 3:04 pm

    KATiiExLOUiiSE wrote:

    my arsehole boyfriend cheats on me all the time.

    and he lies about everything.

    we live together and he still does it.

    but i love him an stay with him.

    even tho i cheat on him to get back at him

    we really should never have got together in the first place!

    cuz it was a rebound thing for him anyway.

    FOOL


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  • Report | Quote Posted: Fri 3rd Oct 2008, 3:30 pm

    dollface wrote:

    I don't know what fairy tale land you lot live in, but you can still love someone and want other people. Also, all relationships experience problems, how much you want each other can vary. It's natural to fancy other people, it doesn't mean you don't love your partner. It's only a problem if you actually act on it, because then the other person might get hurt. All you can do is try to recreate the spark, and make each other feel wanted and attractive.

    Thank you

    Your the only 1 who doesnt think IM a horrible witch ready to runaway and have some mad affair!!!

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Fri 3rd Oct 2008, 3:31 pm
    Buy a bigger strap on

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Fri 3rd Oct 2008, 3:34 pm

    No1Toker wrote:

    Buy a bigger strap on

    THanks thats dead helpful

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Fri 3rd Oct 2008, 3:36 pm

    Sparklytiger wrote:

    THanks thats dead helpful

    I'll invoice you the bill for the consultation

    Last edited by No1Toker, Fri 3rd Oct 2008, 3:36 pm.

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Fri 3rd Oct 2008, 3:38 pm

    No1Toker wrote:

    I'll invoice you the bill for the consultation

    It will be returned to sender

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Fri 3rd Oct 2008, 3:40 pm

    Sparklytiger wrote:

    It will be returned to sender

    Oh                            


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  • Report | Quote Posted: Fri 3rd Oct 2008, 3:45 pm

    No1Toker wrote:

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    Rememeber in friends when Mike & Monica played table tennis for hours and they were trying to trash talk each other but Mike really sucked at it so to quote the great Phoebe Buffet

    'Better Comebacks.... Better Comebacks'

    I would have inserted your 1st name but I dont know it lol

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Fri 3rd Oct 2008, 3:51 pm

    Sparklytiger wrote:

    Rememeber in friends when Mike & Monica played table tennis for hours and they were trying to trash talk each other but Mike really sucked at it so to quote the great Phoebe Buffet

    'Better Comebacks.... Better Comebacks'

    I would have inserted your 1st name but I dont know it lol

    Cant say i remember that episode or any other Friends episodes for that matter was never a big fan but i guess it must have been funny at the time


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  • Report | Quote Posted: Fri 3rd Oct 2008, 4:57 pm
    If you really loved your partner, cheating would be the last thing on your mind.

    Pick a star on the horizon

    And follow the light

    You'll come back when it's over

    No need to say goodbye.

    Rest in Peace Victoria & Will, always loved and missed, never forgotten xxx


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  • Report | Quote Posted: Sun 5th Oct 2008, 12:58 pm

    KATiiExLOUiiSE wrote:

    my arsehole boyfriend cheats on me all the time.

    and he lies about everything.

    we live together and he still does it.

    but i love him an stay with him.

    even tho i cheat on him to get back at him

    we really should never have got together in the first place!

    cuz it was a rebound thing for him anyway.

    MUG :/



  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 6th Oct 2008, 10:39 pm

    people who say they aren't tempted are lying

    its human nature to like some one else

    it doesn't mean you aren't happy with your partner

    you have just got to let it pass, it will if your love who you are with

    and if the relationship is healthy

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