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  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 18th Aug 2008, 10:06 am

    RozieBee wrote:

    get a fucking backbone, jeez.

    "you need him"

    pfft.

    you're human, humans need food, water, shelter + oxygen to survive. you need them. you do not need him.

    deal with it, you ended it. it might have been for the 'right reasons' but you did it. you probably hurt him + luckily the guy has some sense. he isn't going to go running back to someone who has hurt him once already when he probably trusted you not to.

    live your life, you're young, pretty + single. go out with your friends + someday you'll find someone. someone who truly wants you as he doesn't.

    yuuup spot on

    sounds like you made him your life, instead of part of your life!

    get back out there and get hobbies and interests

    that way you wont feel like you NEED a bloke to be happy

    make your own happiness.

    "That's when you know you've found somebody special.

    When you can just shut the fuck up for a minute

    and comfortably enjoy the silence."


    sex is on fire

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 18th Aug 2008, 10:08 am
    You fucked him about so he's paying you back.

    And the 7th thing I hate the most that you do
    You make me love you

    Reedy <3


    xBitchAssx
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  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 18th Aug 2008, 10:09 am

    to be fair you shouldnt have finished with him then,

    cant expect him to come running back even if he wants to

    Standing in the light of your halo, I've got my angel now. 








    To Be Continued.....


    xxb0nk3rzxx

    19, Female, UK

    584 Posts
  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 18th Aug 2008, 10:20 am

    ThisGirlJadey wrote:

    I went out with *ben* (bf & gf) for a year & 2month. Then about a month ago, i finished him...for what i thought was for the right reasons. But i miss him so much, infact i need him. But he doesnt want me back, he says he just wants to stay single..but then everyone in my family tells me that he wants me back.

    Im so confused,

    i dunno what to do

    I tried to forget him by dating someone else, but that didnt work...What should i do? XX Jadey

    Out of curiosity, how would your family know if he wanted you back?


    ~TattooedLady~

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 18th Aug 2008, 10:27 am
    What was the reason behind breaking up in the first place? This has to be good for the whole I need him thing.

    ''Science is interesting if you don't agree, you can just fuck off.''

    Richard Dawkins quoting a Science magazine, 2008.


    DutchRudder

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 18th Aug 2008, 10:57 am
    Owned yourself.  

    XBOXLIVEGAMERTAG = IxThor


    VanillaFace

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 18th Aug 2008, 1:14 pm

    if you finish someone you got to live with the consiquences as it was all down to you..

    anways,, dont get confused with missing him and wanting to be with him, they are two completely different things. of course you will miss him he has been in your life alot for the last 2ish years,, its natural to miss someone like that when they are taken away just because that bond isnt there anymore.

    alsoo... why chase someone who doesnt want you? to me that would be throwing your self respect right down the drain.. theres no point

    times a healer trust me!

    ....too much of you is never enough Beating Heart

    El ♥ Lew


    BangFace

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 18th Aug 2008, 1:28 pm

    I'm not surprised he won't get back with you.
    You can't go around fucking with peoples heads.


    You won't be strip-searched, torn up tonight
    you won't be cut up, bleeding tonight
    you won't be strung out, cold, shaking to your bones
    wishing you were anywhere else but right here


    xEuphoria

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 18th Aug 2008, 2:58 pm

    Its always fun time coming in here.

    You always get to read about how stupid folk are.


    PoisonPrince★

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    PointyPenis

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Wed 20th Aug 2008, 5:18 pm
    Well theres not really much you can do.. Don't go smothering him with "I miss you I want you back" etc, just leave him be and he will most likely get in touch with you.



    versusterm1nus

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 22nd Sep 2008, 2:26 am

    lmao

    at the end of the day u ended it so you obv dont need him as much as u think , if u reli liked him u wudnt of ended it in the first place , penis.


    Easyytiger

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 22nd Sep 2008, 2:39 am

    RozieBee wrote:


    you're human, humans need food, water, shelter + oxygen to survive. you need them. you do not need him.

    deal with it, you ended it. it might have been for the 'right reasons' but you did it. you probably hurt him + luckily the guy has some sense. he isn't going to go running back to someone who has hurt him once already when he probably trusted you not to.

    live your life, you're young, pretty + single. go out with your friends + someday you'll find someone. someone who truly wants you as he doesn't.

    I agree with it all, but in particular, the highlighted section as to where he's coming from.

    Good call RozieBee.

    Last edited by Skin, Mon 22nd Sep 2008, 2:42 am.

    Skin

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 22nd Sep 2008, 6:05 pm
    well theres nothing you can do. you're the one who finished with him. you shouldnt be annoyed with the fact that he wants to stay single. if thats his choice then you cant do anything to change that. if you're family are saying that he wants to get back together.. then you should talk to him about it. it might be true and it might not be.

    xxserenityxx

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Mon 22nd Sep 2008, 6:14 pm
    Meet me in Preston tomorrow and I'll show you a whale of a time.

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    I'm in a league of my own.


    Rascalov

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