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  • Report | Quote Posted: Thu 9th Oct 2008, 12:19 pm

    How long does it take you to get over someone?

    Thought I was over my ex before it even finished as I wasn't happy.

    Now I have someone who likes me and I feel too weird to do anything about it.

    Stuck in a rut?

    Bleah I hate love.

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    iiamtheSEX

    18, Female, UK

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Thu 9th Oct 2008, 12:20 pm
    Depends on the person. It varies. Theres not a set amount of time

    Introduce a little anarchy. Upset the established order and everything becomes chaos. I'm an agent of chaos. Oh and you know the thing about chaos? It's fair.


    DarkKnight.

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Thu 9th Oct 2008, 12:28 pm

    all depends obviouslyy....

    best way to get over someone is to do things to take ur mind off them

    go out with ur mates... get drunk... and maybe shag someone else. lol

    LOLZ ^_^


    BangFace

    20, Female, UK

    1,128 Posts
  • Report | Quote Posted: Thu 9th Oct 2008, 12:29 pm

    DarkKnight. wrote:

    Depends on the person. It varies. Theres not a set amount of time

    Don't be daft. There is clearly a set time.


    Spyro
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    28, Male, UK

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Thu 9th Oct 2008, 12:30 pm

    Spyro wrote:

    Don't be daft. There is clearly a set time.

    Really?

    Introduce a little anarchy. Upset the established order and everything becomes chaos. I'm an agent of chaos. Oh and you know the thing about chaos? It's fair.


    DarkKnight.

    22, Male, UK, Online!

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Thu 9th Oct 2008, 12:31 pm

    DarkKnight. wrote:

    Really?



    Hiro

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Thu 9th Oct 2008, 12:31 pm

    BangFace wrote:

    all depends obviouslyy....

    best way to get over someone is to do things to take ur mind off them

    go out with ur mates... get drunk... and maybe shag someone else. lol

    Liking that idea

    Any offers?

    ha

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    iiamtheSEX

    18, Female, UK

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Thu 9th Oct 2008, 12:35 pm
    I was like that with my ex, i thought i were over him so i finished him. Then when i had other interests of a relationship i got scared and wanted to run back to my comfort zone. Ended up just going for it though, feels weird at first but you get used to being with someone else. As long as they make you smile, go for it. Johnny was a bit weird anyways
    Last edited by xBitchAssx, Thu 9th Oct 2008, 12:36 pm.
    Reason: confort? teh fuck

    You were my strength when i was weak,
    You were my voice when i couldn't speak,
    You were my eyes when i couldn't see,
    You saw the best there was in me,
    You picked me up when i couldn't reach,
    I'm everything i am because you loved me.

    Reedy <3


    xBitchAssx
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    20, Female, UK

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Thu 9th Oct 2008, 1:11 pm
    2 hours 24minutes and 12 seconds.

    Giggz
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  • Report | Quote Posted: Thu 9th Oct 2008, 1:15 pm
    I'd say go for it because I'm stuck in comfort zone and I'm to scared to get out of it but it isn't really making me happy.

    And so I say I don't love you,
    Though it kills me
    It's a lie that sets you free.

    <3 Mark


    ZoeFILTH

    19, Female, UK

    959 Posts
  • Report | Quote Posted: Thu 9th Oct 2008, 1:23 pm
    about a day haha

    men are like tyres it never hurts to have a spare :happy:


  • Report | Quote Posted: Thu 9th Oct 2008, 1:33 pm
    It depends really on how long you were with them and how much you loved them etc.I have been with my bf for over 3 years.I dont think i could get over that quickly if we split up.Just try and take your mind of it though by going clubbing with your friends,going shopping,or anything else that will take your mind of it.
    :innocent: I HAVE THE BOOBIES SO I MAKE THE RULES :innocent: .

    *Miss_Kellie*

    21, Female, UK

    663 Posts
  • Report | Quote Posted: Thu 9th Oct 2008, 1:39 pm
    18 years.           

    Pick a star on the horizon

    And follow the light

    You'll come back when it's over

    No need to say goodbye.

    Rest in Peace Victoria & Will, always loved and missed, never forgotten xxx


    kumquat

    19, Female, UK

    954 Posts
  • Report | Quote Posted: Thu 9th Oct 2008, 1:41 pm

    be careful. dont get missing him, and wanting to be with him mixed up. he was a person in your life for a long time, and now he isnt there anymore. it is going to feel weird without him.

    also as someone else said, he was your comfort zone. dont go running back at the 1st sign of change. be strong and stick it out. one day you will wake up and realise u dont wanna be with him nemore...

    and i'm talking from experience.

    LOLZ ^_^


    BangFace

    20, Female, UK

    1,128 Posts
  • Report | Quote Posted: Thu 9th Oct 2008, 2:43 pm
    I was married for 14 years, we split and I was over her the second I walked out of the door as the love had died. Sad but true
    :twisted: Raking at the Gates of Hell :twisted:

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