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  • Report | Quote Posted: Sat 16th Aug 2008, 11:11 am

    I went out with *ben* (bf & gf) for a year & 2month. Then about a month ago, i finished him...for what i thought was for the right reasons. But i miss him so much, infact i need him. But he doesnt want me back, he says he just wants to stay single..but then everyone in my family tells me that he wants me back.

    Im so confused,

    i dunno what to do

    I tried to forget him by dating someone else, but that didnt work...What should i do? XX Jadey

    Last edited by ♥ Jadeeey ♥, Sat 16th Aug 2008, 11:12 am.

    JadeyBabey<3


    ♥ Jadeeey ♥

    17, Female, UK

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Sat 16th Aug 2008, 11:28 am

    live with it

    you finished him... you only want him back cause you cant have him andhe dosnt want you back. You dated someone else so you cant have wanted him back that much... if you got back with him itd only go tits up again when you get bored...

    just leave him alone and move on... you made your bed lie in it

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    lushMUCH

    20, Female, UK

    1,408 Posts
  • Report | Quote Posted: Sat 16th Aug 2008, 11:29 am
    LOL, your own fault you retard.
    Last edited by Whatever, Sat 16th Aug 2008, 11:39 am.
    Reason: hopefully no one else saw that

    Whatever

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Sat 16th Aug 2008, 11:33 am

    Whatever wrote:

    LOL, you're own fault you retard.

    LOL, 'your', retard.


    7Guaje

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Sat 16th Aug 2008, 11:39 am

    7Guaje wrote:

    LOL, 'your', retard.

    I knew that.


    Whatever

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Sat 16th Aug 2008, 11:53 am

    ThisGirlJadey wrote:

    I went out with *ben* (bf & gf) for a year & 2month. Then about a month ago, i finished him...for what i thought was for the right reasons. But i miss him so much, infact i need him. But he doesnt want me back, he says he just wants to stay single..but then everyone in my family tells me that he wants me back.

    Im so confused,

    i dunno what to do

    I tried to forget him by dating someone else, but that didnt work...What should i do? XX Jadey

    u need him? does he provide you with oxygen then or helps you walk??

    your family are probably lieing to make u feel better which they shouldnt do..... or hes making you chase after him by telling you different to everyone else.

    no point staying with it

    move on

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    Ashz

    20, Male, UK

    737 Posts
  • Report | Quote Posted: Sat 16th Aug 2008, 11:54 am
    You shouldn't have finished with him then, if he don't want you back you've got to move on

    ThisGirlx

    20, Female, UK

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Sat 16th Aug 2008, 12:17 pm
    Lol just LOL

    Introduce a little anarchy. Upset the established order and everything becomes chaos. I'm an agent of chaos. Oh and you know the thing about chaos? It's fair.


  • Report | Quote Posted: Sat 16th Aug 2008, 12:26 pm
    Diddums.

    Melissa.

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Sat 16th Aug 2008, 12:34 pm

    You finished him.

    And as for needing him, fucking LOL.

    Nobody 'needs' anyone.

    Get over it, move on.

    Lexi Furey.

    Born - 25/01/2008

    Mummy loves you Princess.

    x


  • Report | Quote Posted: Sat 16th Aug 2008, 1:29 pm

    Well he doesn't want you back so there's no reason to be confused.

    End of problem

    And so I say I don't love you,
    Though it kills me
    It's a lie that sets you free.

    <3 Mark


    ZoeFILTH

    19, Female, UK

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Sat 16th Aug 2008, 4:30 pm

    get a fucking backbone, jeez.

    "you need him"

    pfft.

    you're human, humans need food, water, shelter + oxygen to survive. you need them. you do not need him.

    deal with it, you ended it. it might have been for the 'right reasons' but you did it. you probably hurt him + luckily the guy has some sense. he isn't going to go running back to someone who has hurt him once already when he probably trusted you not to.

    live your life, you're young, pretty + single. go out with your friends + someday you'll find someone. someone who truly wants you as he doesn't.

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    RozieBee

    18, Female, UK

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Sat 16th Aug 2008, 4:38 pm
    Your only seem interested because 'tough times being single'

    men are like tyres it never hurts to have a spare :happy:


  • Report | Quote Posted: Sat 16th Aug 2008, 5:19 pm

    RozieBee wrote:

    get a fucking backbone, jeez.

    "you need him"

    pfft.

    you're human, humans need food, water, shelter + oxygen to survive. you need them. you do not need him.

    deal with it, you ended it. it might have been for the 'right reasons' but you did it. you probably hurt him + luckily the guy has some sense. he isn't going to go running back to someone who has hurt him once already when he probably trusted you not to.

    live your life, you're young, pretty + single. go out with your friends + someday you'll find someone. someone who truly wants you as he doesn't.

    Best answer so far.

    NatalieLAUREN;

    Light up, light up
    As if you have a choice
    Even if you cannot hear my voice
    I'll be right beside you dear..♫♫


    xRaindrops

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  • Report | Quote Posted: Sat 16th Aug 2008, 5:29 pm

    xRaindrops wrote:

    Best answer so far.

    why, thankyou

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    RozieBee

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