This is a question for people that are in relationships... or have been in a relationship.

BASICALLY

say you were going out with all your mates for a night out in town! would you enjoy the night more if your boyfriend / girlfriend came along with you?

Iv noticed that my mate is always inviting her boyfriend out with us & it just makes things awkward because

1. They always end up having an arguement and crying and ruining the night.

2. It makes me worry and feel sorry for him incase hes being left out.

3. If any of us so much as touch him on the arm we get accused of "TRYING TO GET WITH HIM!"

dont get me wrong I do like her boyfriend and get on well with him, but Id just rather he didnt always have to tag along with us!

Iv noticed my other friend is starting to do it too!

anyway

would you rather your lover came out with you?

or would you rather it just be your friends?

I wouldnt mind him coming every now and again, not all the time tho.

Need some space, especially when drinking lol

in a way I can kind of understand why they might want to bring their boyfriends.. so that they wont get left on their own if we're all off with a lad or something.

but it just annoys me they have to come and ruin the girly nights out

JuiceMe wrote:

in a way I can kind of understand why they might want to bring their boyfriends.. so that they wont get left on their own if we're all off with a lad or something.

but it just annoys me they have to come and ruin the girly nights out

Have you mentioned anything? Why dont you tell them you want a girlies night out, which means GIRLS only

Razzle Dazzle wrote:

Have you mentioned anything? Why dont you tell them you want a girlies night out, which means GIRLS only

me and my mate have sort of tried droppping hints by saying things like "oh are you coming out on thursday for our girly night!!"

Dee wrote:

lol for nights out i'll enjoy a bit of both... once under a blue moon i'll head out with just the lads, but it's pretty much the same craic if the gf's are all there. All the gf's get along, all the fella's get on with the gf's apart from one, Louise. Everyone secretly fucking hates her lol She's a pain in the arse. Too much to go into now why we all can't stand her but we do.

see something like that would be fine! but out of like a group of 10 of us! only 2 have boyfriends

so its just a bit awkward and "I cant talk about my vagina and stuff with you here "

Dee wrote:

lol well, i'm sure there's plenty of other opportunities to talk about your vagina with your girl mates.. and i suppose you can anyways, they're your mates bf's... nobody to impress.

OH BUT THERE IS!

one is good mates with my brother

and the other is best mates with my ex

THEY CANT KNOW ABOUT MY VAGINA!!