...I just got a random thought after reading a few forums on drugs etc, if you knew someone you cared about alot was taking drugs and didn't agree with it, would you say summit and then just leave it, or would you keep at them to stop. Or would you just not bother? this made me think as someone i really care about does them and i just let it drop thought to myself let him do as he pleases...but what if one day that person you cared for ended up dying from the drug?

Knowing if you had kept at them it may have made a difference. Anyone ever think like this?

No1Toker wrote:

We all have our own choices in life and we decide our own path,if my mates are taking drugs then so be it

but what if they died from the said drug, would you have not felt that telling them to stop or trying to make an effort too, would have made any diff?...i was speaking more of love ones be it family or a partner

I wouldn't stop them taking drugs because that's their choice... but if they were a complete mess and in debt and doin drugs all the time then i would probably try and convince them to clean their act up but if they ignored me and were still in a mess then i'd just leave them to it. You can only do so much in a situation like that, at the end of the day they have to be willing to help themselves and hiding away from the problem won't solve it.

but if its just one of your mates doin a couple of pills on the weekend and goin to work on monday etc then that's their choice. I'll leave the parenting up to their mother.

Depends how much I cared about them and what drugs. I wasn't bothered when my cousin was just smoking joints, but when he moved onto Es and coke I told him to stop and he did.
If it was any of my friends, bar about 5, then I'd just let them do as they please.

It depends what drugs

If it was a hard drug like heroin I would tell em to stop but I wouldnt keep goin on at them cuz that would push em away and make them do it more.

I would mention it a couple of times tho